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Tantric Healing Sessions for Men

Are you as free in your sexual expression and your daily life as you know you could be?
Do you have desires that cause feelings of shame or guilt?
Do you have unfulfilled desires that are longing to be acknowledged?
Do you long for a deeper sense of connection, nurturing, self-acceptance and love?
Do you lack confidence around your sexual power or sense of masculinity?
Do sex and intimacy create anxiety, frustration or feelings of inadequacy?
Is there a nagging feeling that there must be more to sex than you have discovered?

If you answered YES to any of the questions above, would you like to create more confidence, self-acceptance, joy and freedom in your sexual expression and in your daily life?

At the very core of human experience, we all long to feel loved, honored and accepted at every level. We crave an experience of connection. For most, sexual expression and the ways that we choose to love are powerfully connected to our own sense of self and the happiness and pleasure that we allow into our lives. Our culture creates a rift between our deeper sense of Self and our sexual expression with its conflicting messages of sexual shame and sexual temptation. Society has created a "standard" for the beauty of bodies, "acceptable" forms of sexual desire and for "normal" sexual expression which very few people can live up to in an Authentic way.

When the messages of our culture conflict with how we show up in the world, the ways we desire to experience pleasure and our deeper sense of spiritual connection we can find ourselves confused, withdrawn and even ashamed. While Men loving Men has become more accepted in recent years, it still has the shadows of our recent past. And its acceptance may not be found everywhere, especially if we grew up in a more conservative family or community.

And even within the communities of Men who love Men, an "acceptable standard" and "acceptable roles" are created. These are just some of the questions and conflicts that so many men might face:

How do we fit in when our body, age or social gender expression doesn't match the "desired norm"? How do we cope when sexual desires such as fetishes emerge that are outside the mainstream of our community? Or when what we are really needing simply doesn't match up to what society would understand? Isn't it possible, for instance, that a straight man would simply have a desire to be held and nurtured by another man without being "gay"?

Where do we find acceptance and peace when same-sex desires arises after years of being in a straight relationship? Where do we turn when our sexual desires feel "unspeakable" or "shameful"? How do we reconcile our natural attractions and desires with conflicting values from our family, friends, or religious upbringing? How do we find safe and honoring ways to explore our desires and to acknowledge and embrace the beauty of our own unique Masculine expression?

How do we create a more Empowered, Fullfilling experience of Sex, Relationships and Self?

Tantric Healing Sessions help provide answers, solutions and experiences that address these types of questions and frustrations. They are also a powerful remedy for those men who simply want to expand their own capacity for a more harmonious and balanced sexual expression, while increasing their capacity for joy and pleasure in life.

Tantric Healing Sessions offer a truly Holistic approach to integrating Body, Mind and Spirit through a Tantric Model of Energy and Awareness. Through the process, you are guided to explore every facet of your own Being in a way that Empowers you to better understand your Self, your Sexuality and your own capacity to create Love and Joy in your life and relationships.

As your own sense of Self-Love, Self-Acceptance and Confidence grows around your body and your desires, that same freedom begins to ripple into every aspect of your life. You are free to explore life with confidence and curiosity, no longer limited by the "box" of others. And in that freedom you are able to decide for yourself what is true about your experience of pleasure and your expressions of love, joy and happiness.

During a Tantric Healing session you have the opportunity to:

  • Experience your sensuality through touch and connection and be held in a space of Unconditional Love and Acceptance as you open to reveal your Authentic Self
  • Explore every facet of your sexuality, desire, body image and sexual expression so that you may integrate them all through Self-Acceptance and Love
  • Remove the energetic blocks and obstacles to experiencing greater confidence, freedom and capacity for pleasure
  • Learn new perspectives and tools that will create deeper healing while consciously learning to expand and channel your Sexual Energy as a positive force of inspiration, joy and celebration into every aspect of your life.
  • Create an experience of balanced, harmonious sexual expression and intimate connection that is fully aligned with your deepest longings and desires
  • Learn to fully honor and embrace your Self as you are, and in doing so, experience greater respect and acceptance from others in your relationships

Using this Tantric Healing process, you will develop the skills, experience and perspectives needed to:

  • Create greater Self-Acceptance and Love in your life
  • Dissolve outdated patterns of guilt and shame, and destroy the limitations that culture has placed upon you so that you may find the freedom to be your Authentic Self
  • Uncover the secret language of your desires and use that wisdom to align yourself with your most balanced, harmonious and fulfilling version of sexual expression
  • Connect more fully to your deepest desires for sexuality and intimacy so that you can create more fulfilling relationships
  • Integrate your sexual expression with your own understanding of a Higher Spiritual Power
  • Expand your new sense of Love and Joy into every aspect of your life
  • Increase your confidence and stamina as you embrace your unique expression of Masculine sexuality

Tantric Healing Sessions follow the unique needs of each client and may include any of the following Tantric approaches to healing: Breathwork, Chakra Clearing, Conscious Touch, Healing Bodywork, Conscious Energy Exchange, Sacred Intimate experience, Energy Healing, Sound Therapy, Aroma Therapy, Tantric Healing Ritual, Tantric Coaching, Vedic Astrology Consultation, and/or Guided Imagery.

Additionally, you may receive recommendations to deepen the healing process between sessions, such as: Ayurvedic Herbal, dietary or lifestyle recommendations, Flower Essence or Aroma Therapy, Tantric meditation practices, Tantric breathing practices or other practices or exercises designed to accelerate your healing and deepen awareness.

Tantric Healing sessions start at only $180 for a 90 Minute session. For longer sessions up to 3 hours add an additional $60 per additional 30 Minutes.

Please Note: Tantric Healing sessions are offered as a tool for greater self-awareness and growth for men already on or now beginning a path of Self-Empowerment, Personal Growth, Healing, Self-Discovery and/or positive transformation towards their fullest potential. It is not a substitute for professional mental health services or medical care of any kind. Should you be experiencing serious medical issues or concerned about the state of your mental health, it is advised that you seek proper medical attention. Additionally, Tantric Healing sessions require that the client be healthy enough to be cleared for exercise by a doctor, as some Tantric practices can be aerobic or strenuous in nature.

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Western Tantra Coaching Sessions

Western Tantra has become very popular. It utilizes some general Tantric concepts and blends them into what some have called "Neo-Tantra." This Neo-Tantra is based upon genuine Tantra and Tantric Principles, however it is a small slice of Tantra, not the whole of Tantra. In Western Tantra, specific advanced Tantric techniques have been selected and used for sexual healing and enhancing the act of lovemaking.

In terms of Traditional Tantra as a Spiritual Yoga Discipline, Neo-Tantra or Western Tantric practices are based upon a very advanced ritual involving a Spiritualized Physical Union. In Traditional Tantra, this practice requires years of preparation through disciplined Tantric Sadhana. The goal of the ritual is to unite Shiva and Shakti through a symbolic physical union of two who have discovered themselves to be entirely sacred, thus attempting to merge the last concept of Duality into Non-Dual experience or Enlightenment.

Neo-Tantra or Western Tantra as an erotic awareness and sexual healing tool is quite effective for those who wish to use the techniques. It can act as a body positive healing method for those wishing to more deeply honor and respect their sexual expression and nature. It also benefits the practitioner by increasing stamina and control over orgasm, as well as providing increased awareness and heightened sensitivity to erotic and sensual pleasure. It can also profoundly deepen the intimate connection and depth of genuine love and compassion between two partners if they are practicing it together. And at its most profound experiential level, it can bring a genuine sense of Spiritual connection and experience to lovemaking.

Like more traditional Yoga, regular practice is usually needed to get great benefits, although most people will notice some benefits fairly quickly. And quite a few have rather profound experiences early on.

I am willing to teach this and coach you at any level of experience with Yoga, but I recommend that you consider beginning other Yogic practices as a way of laying a deeper foundation with which to progress before you begin Western Tantra. If not before then at the same time. If, however, you are only interested in the Erotic elements of Western Tantra, I will still be willing to work with you.

Through Western Tantra Coaching, I will teach you the principles and the practices of Western Tantra which will help you achieve the benefits listed above. It is recommended that if you have a partner that you both undertake this coaching together. If you are single, then it is recommended that you initially keep this as a personal practice for yourself.

Coaching Sessions Can Include Instruction in:

  • Philosophy and Tantric Education
  • Preparatory Practices
  • Intimacy Exercices
  • Guided Meditation and Healing
  • Massage Training
  • Tantric Erotic Massage (Lingam or Genital Massage)
  • Tantric Sacred Spot Massage (Anal or Prostate Massage)
  • Pelvic-Heart Integration Healing
  • Tantric Masturbation (for Individuals)
  • Tantric Lovemaking Techniques (Sacred Intimacy)
  • Tantric Union Ritual (Sacred Union)
  • Creating a Personal Tantric Yoga Practice
  • Benefiting from Tantra in Daily Living

During the coaching sessions, we will find a way of working together that best suits your needs and your comfort levels. I can coach you through different experiences, or I can give you tools and exercises that you can take home and practice alone or together as a couple. We will create coaching session boundaries to ensure that your privacy and personal comfort is respected at all times.

This Western Tantra based upon erotic energy is also a great way to introduce yourself to Tantra. Once you get started and discover the joy and peace that Tantra can bring, I hope you will want to dive into the other aspects of Tantra as well.

Western Tantra Coaching is available through the Tantric Healing Sessions described in the first section above.

Tantra Yoga Overview

Tantra is a long tradition of Yogic practices and techniques which attempt to integrate and weave awareness of the divine into Daily life.

Despite Tantra's popularity in the west as a practice for better sex and deeper intimacy, its original intentions are much deeper and aimed at the expansion of consciousness.

I teach and offer Tantra as part of the Traditional system of Yoga as a way of connecting more deeply with the Self and Spirituality. I teach it in conjunction with Hatha Yoga and Ashtanga Yoga which are also part of Indian Traditional Yoga.

I also teach the westernized Tantra which focuses on working with the erotic energies, offering that as an extension of the true Tantric Yoga. In this context, I offer the philosphies, instructions in specific techniques, education and coaching as a guide for you to delve into it as a private practice. For information on Western Tantra which deals with Sexual energy please read the "Western Tantra Coaching" section below after completing this introduction.

This section is an overview of Tantra Yoga as a Spiritual Discipline and Path.

Like all Yogas, Tantra is a scientific method which is designed to systematically prepare the body and mind to explore and experience the True Nature of the Mind or the Self. It seeks to purify all aspects of the individual so that the Individual Consciousness can merge with the Supreme Consciousness. This experience is most commonly called "Enlightenment" or "Self-Realization".

Tantra is a specific Yogic path which includes many different techniques, practices, tools and philosophies. Many of the commonly discussed types of yoga, including Hatha Yoga, Kundalini Yoga, Mantra Yoga and Kriya Yoga all are a part of the Tantric Tradition. In fact, Tantra has a philosophy of including everything and utilizing any means necessary to achieve the final goal, and thus it is easy to incorporate many different paths into the Tantric Path. It is so inclusive that it can be utilized by anyone of any religious or spiritual background.

Tantra as a path is an exploration of Life and the Energy which creates life. This Energy or the Power of Consciousness is referred to as "Shakti" and Consciousness or the Witnessing aspect is referred to as Shiva. In Tantra, the practitioner seeks to connect to the Divine Nature of all of creation and weave that sacredness into every aspect of his life.

This "Weaving" is an integration of and acceptance of all of life within the Practitioner and is done through various stages using specific techniques which are appropriate to the individual's needs. Once the Divine Nature of life has been experienced in all things, the Practitioner then seeks to awaken Kundalini (the Shakti force in the body) and then merge Shakti and Shiva within his own Consciousness. This Unification of Shakti and Shiva creates the state we call "Enlightenment" and is the ultimate goal of Tantra.

Along the Path of Tantra, various changes in body and consciousness occur which produce increased levels of peace and joy in the practitioner, all the while deepening the practitioners awareness of the Energies which make up life.

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